Plastic ?!?!

Since I am in that stage of life where I need to meet people even if I don't like them or I don't wish to talk to them so I am being called "Plastic" zilliion times. We call is "Fakeness" as well, a word which is not officially in the dictionary yet while we use it to describe each other nowadays. I am writing this post because I want to know is it only me who feels it this way or this is how the world is actually moving. As a child basically I was called a very shy person not talking to any guests or any one I am meeting for the first time but apparently when I grew up and when I had to meet people everyday I changed completely.

My heart and mind doesn't support me but still in life I have to meet and greet so many people in a day and in the most "plastic" way ever. That is so NOT me but if I don't act this way I am no longer considered as a friendly and a good person rather I would tagged with the title "Rude". Isn't it? This world has become so plastic, people are back biting about each other yet they are fine with them in person. This is what I can't do when I don't like someone due to a reason I don't want to act so fake and be all fine with them in person. It's not that I am proving myself to be the innocent one or acting as an angel but if it's time to admit so yes I do accept that this is the way I am. Think it as a rude person, or the one that doesn't mingle but atleast I don't like to act fake and all plastic.

I am not pick pointing anyone in this post because even I am like this now, but my point is that the world is no more real. People meet you very nicely but don't remember you or don't even bother to be in contact with you. Everything is so fake, the smiles, the laughs, the hangouts and the conversation. But in order to live in such a world you need to be a little fake or plastic.

BigLove 

Pakistan! My land

My blogging always cheer me up, it's been ages since I am writing any post and I have a valid reason for it I was on my annual leave to Pakistan. Yes! returned last Friday and till now I am not completely adjust in Dubai. Just wanted to share my experience in Pakistan I would first like to describe Pakistan in one word "Heaven" I know many of my readers can't digest it but that's true or may be it's my land. 

Pakistan is so tension freee despite of all the terror happening there, there are so many people to meet within my own family that even one month would be less. It feels great seriously a touch and a blend of a complete traditional lifestyle make my life far more better. Even though the weather was really not good too hot in Karachi but I love my land so much that I am ready to take up all the pains. Now I realize why my parents always used to remind me that Pakistan is the final destination. they were always right because this time stepping into Pakistan made me rest at peace despite of all the flaws.

Some pictures from my trip to Pakistan, i don't care how are the pics I just know that in the end it's my land :D <3

BigLove

Typical traditional breakfast <3 

Beauty in Pak :D 

Cutest Salesman 

What If I told you, You can eat without posting on INSTAGRAM .

Instagram ? I am sure everyone of us must have heard of it a social networking application which speaks only one language "Pictures". I am really surprised that Instagram being only a picture posting application has taken over our lives same as Facebook or twitter, however for these two sites it took a lot of time to have an addiction usage image. Actually I am not surprised because I myself is an Instagram regular user, I got to know about this application last year February and I loved it, I was a typical instagramer posting everything before eating. Leave the eating part, I even used to post my jewellery, makeup, clothes, shoes in short every shit on earth, but that's the trend don't think I got insane and posting such stuffs.

The addiction decreased a lot since I started working and since I got a knowledge this is so useless. I have an account on Instagram and I won't lie I love it, just love the filters, the effects, the editing options but I don't  do photobombing anymore. I got some really good friends from different parts of the world and they are kind of real and genuine users of Instagram. My profile is on privacy and even if I post something that too once in a week so I am satisfied with the comments and likes of the people whom I got to know through Instagram. 

But I seriously wonder there are still those users existing who post even while they are shitting. Like seriously no joke, wakeup, sleeping, eating ,drinking every picture of what they are doing right now. I think this is the biggest misuse of this application while other people are least bothered to know when you wakeup and sleep. Anyhow just a review on Instagram even though I repeat I just love this application and use it quite often, If anyone of my blogger friends are using Instagram then surely follow me --> Username: Youmnafzal.. Even if you don't use it or if you use it I want to know your reviews too, feel free to express :) 

BigLove

Who are bloggers ?

Who are bloggers ? This is the question which is not in my mind but yes it is in the minds of the people around me. Sometimes even I wonder we the bloggers are writers, or online writers or just willing to share our thoughts publicly or what? It's been one and half year since I am blogging and I can see myself improving as a writer and I choose to continue blogging because I want to write a book that's my ultimate dream. 

But I feel pity on the thinking of others a great example lives at my place that is my sister. She says that I am the most jobless person, I lack a good friends of circle and I am too much into virtual life that's why I blog. Nahhhhh she should grow up and think out of the box, oh there I caught the right word "Out of the box" we, the bloggers are people who don't just speak but even write and love to share what we think or feel and this is what I call "thinking out of the box" and expressing it in the most beautiful way. On the other side my Mom is a sweet example, ofcourse she doesn't know what a blog is so after me explaining her verbally about the whole blog thing so she really liked it. In fact she linked my way of blogging to her lifestyle, she said she used to write a diary everyday based on daily routine and happenings. The only difference is she writes it with a pen and I am writing with the keyboard, felt good that Mom not being much educated actually appreciated my practice of blogging. 

Coming to my friends whom I am close to, the only thing they know about blogging is just the word and how to pronounce it. Sad, but true and so they think almost the same as my sister. What to do All I know is I don't mind blogging and I love it, it's a sweet addiction which will give me some amazing friends and will improve my writing skills. But in my opinion bloggers are much sophisticated people, a good bunch of people who either think mutually or want to share their thoughts in a much better manner. I would like to know my co-blogger's opinions as well. Happy blogging :)

BigLove 

What's in my HEAD !!!

Created a new blog just some minutes ago because I badly needed one. I am blogging since August 2011 it's been almost 1 and half year and never thought that the level of interest is still the same in writing. In fact the level has increased and so I have so much in my head, so much in my mind that I needed a new blog badly. So just a short introduction of what I will be posting, I will be basically posting things, matters ,topics which are just in my mind and head. No personal topics or a regular diary type post, I hope I could carry on this blog as well inclusive of the previous one. 

Hoping to get a good number of followers here as well so that my words can spread over and I feel like I am actually sharing stuffs rather than just posting. I am ready to take up blog challenges too for a good kick start, will be posting not that regularly but one thing is for sure the blog will be lively. 

BigLove